Sermon on Exodus 20:1-17 & John 2:13-22
Pastor Jennifer Garcia
Focus: Just as Jesus showed righteous anger, we can discern whether our anger is righteous by rooting ourselves in the ways God shows us to live in right relationship with God and other people.
Function:This sermon will help hearers learn to befriend and learn from anger.
During Lent this year, our readings from the Hebrew Bible remind us of some of God’s promises.
Two weeks ago, we read about God promising to never again flood the whole world, creating a permanent covenant of peace.
Last week, we read about God’s covenant with Abraham and Sarah: that their numerous descendants would be God’s people forever.
This week, we read a third covenant: what we know today as the 10 Commandments. They’re the big ten among the over six hundred instructions in the Law given to God’s people.
God gave the newly freed Israelites a new way to live in right relationship with God and with one another.And, as we’ve been talking about all year, that way of life includes Sabbath.
The Sabbath commandment reminds them of who created the world by using God’s own Sabbath rest as the basis for the instruction.God rested after working for six days, and we should rest too.
God also uses the Sabbath commandment to remind them of their freedom and who freed them. Every week they took a day off to remind them that they were no longer enslaved in Egypt. They were free people who reveled in free people’s rest.
By remembering who created the world and freed them, they remained in right relationship with God: a relationship of love, gratitude, and joy. They also remained in right relationship with each other and the land by taking a day off from their labor. They had time to enjoy each other and gave their land and animals a break.
We’re focusing on Sabbath, but all God’s instructions here provide a framework for right relationship with God and other people. Respect God’s name and put God first. Don’t murder, steal, or lie about others. And between those: remember to take a break to enjoy God and each other. It’s all about relationship, and rest is the centerpiece between the instructions about how to love God and those about how to love neighbors.
I want to share a recent story of how I did not uphold the Sabbath commandment. I’m not sharing this story to humble brag about how much I do or to make anyone worried about me. I love my work, and in general I take very good care of myself. I’m just also human and sometimes misjudge how much rest I need.
The week before last was a busy week. Not unreasonably busy, but busier than usual. I took my usual Friday off, hung out with friends, and did things that fill my cup. Then, Saturday was our church council retreat, which was wonderful—it was exciting to spend time with our amazing leaders discerning what God is up to in this place for this next year. But it was still work on a day when I normally don’t.
By Monday, after a joyful but very loud family birthday party on Sunday afternoon, I was done. I woke up on Monday morning tired and cranky. I should have taken Monday or at least Monday morning off, but I didn’t think I could afford to because of what needed to get done this week.That was a poor choice, because what happened instead is that I spent Monday morning getting very little done and being angry about it. I was angry about stuff in the news. I was angry about not being productive. I was angry at myself for not listening to my needs.
The problem was that I did not give myself rest when I needed it.
It wasn’t my anger that was the problem, though I spent many years trying not to show anger. I was afraid I would hurt people with my anger.
But we see an angry Jesus in our Gospel reading, so surely anger itself isn’t bad. It’s part of the beautiful variety of human emotion. Emotions themselves aren’t bad—they just are. What matters is how we react to them.
If in my anger, I had picked a fight with my spouse or started insulting people on the internet, those wouldn’t have been good choices. I would have been hurting my neighbors.Anger can be used to hurt others, but it can be used for good, too.
In our Gospel reading, Jesus turned his righteous anger into something like a street performance, a form of protest decrying systemic religious problems. I admit I was unsatisfied with the information I found about what exactly Jesus was angry about. What I found relies too much on speculation or could easily drift into anti-Jewish thought. So, I’m not going to spend more time today trying to explain something I don’t fully grasp.
But what I do see is that Jesus’ act of righteous anger here either commenced his public ministry, as John portrays it, or was the beginning of the end, as Matthew, Mark, and Luke portray it. Jesus’ anger was a tool that he used to defy the authorities who opposed his message of Beloved Community.
Again, anger itself isn’t bad—it just is. Anger can help us recognize when our boundaries are being violated. Anger can let us know when our expectations are unreasonable or not clearly communicated. Anger can energize us to defend our hurting neighbors or work to right an injustice in the world.
For me this week, there was some righteous anger about things going on in the world, but for the most part, my anger was letting me know that I hadn’t respected my own need for rest. I wasn’t in right relationship with myself, which made it harder to be in right relationship with the people around me.
But even though I didn’t fulfill God’s instruction to take rest and honor my relationship with God and other people, God sent me love, in the form of my best friend. I had messaged her during the day, complaining about the state of the world. So that evening, I got a text asking if I was up for getting ice cream. My best friend knew what I needed, and so did God. It wasn’t about the ice cream (though it didn’t hurt). It was about my need for connection. God was bringing me back into right relationship with the world, even when I missed the mark.
That’s what the 10 Commandments are about—not an ultimatum that threatens punishment, but a description of what our lives look like when we’re in right relationship with God and our neighbors.
1. If we’re in right relationship with God, our love for God comes first.
2. If we’re in right relationship with each other, we’ll be looking out for our neighbors’ needs instead of coveting, stealing, or lying.
And when we inevitably fall short of those perfect relationships, God is there, loving us no matter what.
So, do your best to take the rest you need. Let that fill you up with love for God and your neighbor. And trust that God is there to catch you in God’s arms when you fall. Rest well, beloved.